If not duffers won't drown

Books with maps in the front are the best kinds of books. Am I right? I have been re-reading my way through the childhood classics, of late. I've done Harry Potter, The Northern Lights, Narnia, A Wrinkle in Time and The Owl Service. I've dipped my toes into the young adult worlds of Tomorrow, When the World Began and The Hunger Games. Now, I'm reading the Swallows and Amazons books.

Were these in your childhood? Written in the 1930s, they tell the story of four siblings who head out on a little sailing boat called 'Swallow' and camp on an island all by themselves. There, they meet two more little girls with a sailing boat of their own, 'Amazon,' who call themselves pirates and wage a good, fun war on the 'Swallows'.

These books are a modern mother's worst nightmare. For one thing, the four kids are out on the water without life jackets and without adults. The littlest boy, Roger, is only seven, and he can't even swim. They light fires, carry knives, cook their own meals and camp alone on an otherwise-deserted island. In the second book, their boat capsizes, sinks, and the children have to swim for their lives. And the mother still lets them keep camping alone.

When the children wrote to their father to ask permission to take the sailing boat out to the island, he sent them a telegraph: BETTER DROWNED THAN DUFFERS IF NOT DUFFERS WON'T DROWN. Better drowned than duffers? I think NOT. Madeleine, you can be as big a duffer as you choose. Six times over. Just please don't drown.

Yet there is something glorious about these books. Not only about the freedom and abandon of their adventures. But also of the responsibility that is just assumed children hold: they keep their tents tidy, they share their food rations, the older ones make sure the younger ones get to bed on time (most of the time).

Make a safer world for kids

National Kidsafe Day is coming up on 23 October, a day when we do our darndest to learn about the key dangers facing our children, and figure out how we can keep their precious little lives safe.

Did you know that more children die from injury than of cancer, asthma and infectious diseases combined? I'm talking about accidents that should be avoidable, like falls from windows, drowning in shallow water and strangling on blind cords.

I'm using National Kidsafe Day to educate myself about the environment in which Madeleine will grow up, and what I can do to protect her from accidents and injuries.

But with all this in mind, how do I ensure Madeleine lives a life full of adventure, of exploration, and of independence? How can I find that balance? This is something I think I will spend her lifetime trying to figure out.


I am participating in the National Kidsafe Day Bloggers Competition to support and promote child safety, along with the added bonus of chances to win prizes. All opinions are my own and not those of Kidsafe. To find out more or to enter the competition, please visit www.kidsafeday.com.au.

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